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New post, haven't blogged in like five years because the Lord has had me in the desert, literally and figuratively, biblically. But I th...

Thursday, March 26, 2026

​The Role of Expectation in Prayer

 "My soul, wait thou only upon God; for my expectation is from him." — Psalm 62:5



Do you struggle with believing prayers? Jesus said to believe that we will receive what we have prayed for an it will be ours. Should we be expectant? 


​In a spiritual context, expectation isn't just "wishing"; it’s a focused form of faith. Here is how it is typically applied to the concept of believing prayer:


Shifting the Source: The verse suggests that expectation should be placed on the Source (God) rather than the Outcome. When we focus on the outcome, we often get anxious about "how" or "when" it will happen, which creates stress.


Active vs. Passive Waiting: Expectation is an active stance. It’s like a traveler standing at a bus stop; they aren't just standing there, they are looking down the road because they know the bus is coming.


Confidence in Character: Belief often flows more easily when it’s based on the character of the provider. Expectation is the quiet confidence that the request has been heard and is being handled.


​A Practical Shift

​If you feel like you are "trying too hard" to believe, it can actually create more internal resistance. Sometimes, the most effective way to apply this is to move from petition (asking) to gratitude (thanking).

​Instead of trying to force a feeling of "it's mine," try sitting with the phrase, "Thank you that this is being handled." This often feels more natural and less "forced" than trying to convince your brain of something it can't see yet.

Wednesday, March 25, 2026

Lavender Blessings: The Sacred Connection with Mary - Excerpt




Lavender has long been cherished for its tranquil qualities, often associated with the serene presence of the Virgin Mary. In the midst of our busy lives, embracing the calmness that lavender offers can serve as a spiritual practice. The gentle aroma and calming properties of lavender provide a perfect backdrop for prayer and reflection, allowing Christian women to connect more deeply with their faith and the divine. This sacred herb invites a sense of peace, making it easier to hear the whispers of God in our hearts.






Historically, lavender has been used in Marian shrines around the world, symbolizing purity and devotion. Pilgrims visiting these sacred sites often find themselves surrounded by the soothing scent of lavender, which enhances their spiritual experience. As they light candles and offer prayers, the presence of lavender acts as a reminder of Mary’s nurturing spirit, guiding them towards inner peace. This historical connection enriches our understanding of how lavender has been intertwined with devotion to the Virgin Mary for centuries.



I have developed a full series on Youtube titled In the Virtual Garden
focusing on prayer time with Mary.
 

In many cultures, gardens dedicated to the Virgin Mary are adorned with lavender, creating sanctuaries of tranquility. These gardens serve not only as a place for prayer but also as a refuge for those seeking solace. The vibrant purple blooms invite contemplation and provide a space for women to gather, share their faith, and support one another. Such environments foster a deep sense of community, enhancing the spiritual journey that lavender inspires.


Above excerpt from Chapter 6 - The Transformative Power of Lavender in Daily Life. Embracing Calmness and Peace through Lavender. 

Lavender Blessings: The Sacred Connection with Mary Kindle Edition

by Cheryl Yale-Bruedigam (Author)